Loss

Loss is never an easy thing. Many times, every time, it is what defines us. We are changed when a new baby comes into our life and we are changed when a loved one leaves us. 2010 has been a very difficult year for me in tearms of loss. In February I lost my principal, Larry Martin. This was one of the hardest losses I've ever had to deal with. While I knew he was a Christian and was/is in heaven praising our Lord, I still miss him and grieve. He was a mentor, a friend, and inspirer to many. I still think about what it was with him, but every time I get down I am reminded that I am being selfish. For Mr. Martin is in heaven praising our Savior every day. What could be better?

On Monday, October 11, my friend Kristi lost her sweet baby boy to a tragic accident at his in home day care. Just shy of 1 year, Baby Leo left the world, but not without leaving a footprint on all of our hearts. His parents, Krisit and Leo, spoke of his life, his legacy and their knowledge of where he is spending eternity. Watching Kristi and Leo stand and speak of Leo and of God at the funeral was amazing. The strength they had to speak came from the Great Comforter. What a testimony.

On Sunday, October 17, a childhood friend passed away. Kyle Gamble was born with one valve in his heart and was given a death sentence at his birth. With God at his side, Kyle defied all odds and lived a full life for 25 years. He was with his oldest brother on Saturday afternoon when he collapsed. His family was all around him Sunday when he finally went to be with his Savior. I know Kyle was greeted in heaven by his baby brother, Brad, who passed away 15 years ago.

In one weeks' time I attended two funerals of two children. I watched as both parents pointed to Christ and celebrated the life their boys had lived. As a parent myself, these losses have touched me even more so. While I am friends with both families, I constantly think, how would I handle the same situation? As parents we know that our children are a gift from God. They are not ours, but His on loan. We don't know how long we have, nor do we know how long our children have. We must celebrate each day, hug the ones we love, and remember to thank our Lord for the gifts he gives.

As you read this, please pray for the Seitz and the Gamble families as they continue to recover from their loss and learn how to live forever changed.